IMG_3488At the paternal family farm, there were my teetotaling great-grandparents living in their crackerbox house, where they had eked out a sort of a living.  They were German and Norwegian and Lutheran.  Everything smelled like old people and dust.  My paternal great-grandfather managed to buy a place where, during the Depression, they could shoot possums and raccoons when they got hungry.

The maternal family farm is a spanking newly remodeled place, with a freshly decorated house and three semis parked out front.  These great-grandparents were Polish and Bohemian and Catholic.  My great-grandfather had to sell his saloon because of Prohibition, but he had made enough money to buy a big piece of land, and continued, allegedly, to supplement his income with alcohol sales once he was on the farm.

This is, obviously, a lesson on the benefits of alcohol.

My other two sets of great-grandparents were not farmers.  They were, respectively, a mortician and a shop owner turned preacher.  We do not go back to John A. Gentleman Funeral Home unless someone dies.

Once part of a family moves Into Town, the farm is nostalgia for the generation who grew up there, and playtime for the generations who didn’t.  I have been put on horses to ride with great-grandpa, and I have picked up barn kittens and gotten impossibly muddy wandering in cornfields and checking out ancient, half-buried old cars.

One activity at the maternal family reunion is The Shooting of Clay Pigeons.   When I think about guns, I think about my students who have been shot, and neighbors and friends who have had fearful experiences with guns.  My only tactile experience with guns was the time I held my brother’s shotgun.  He went turkey hunting occasionally with an uncle.

When I was standing in front of the corn field and my mom’s cousin said, “You want a turn?”  I said, “Sure.”

I had already heard the safety lesson: always keep your gun pointed straight up or straight down when it’s not pointed at the target field.  Now I saw how to unlatch the gun and put yellow cartridges in the closer end, shut it, move the safety from on to off.  The first gun I shot had two triggers.  The inner one was so close to the end that I wasn’t sure how I could pull it, but my mom’s cousin told me it would go.  He was deep down calm, like his legs were a thousand pounds and his resting heart rate was excellent.

I wasn’t sure I could shoot a gun, but I’m used to pretending, so I stepped up next to my cousins and uncles, and I put the wooden part against my shoulder.  For some reason, I remembered that part was important.  On either side of me were some cousins and uncles, looking out at the power lines and six-inch high corn plants.

Someone yelled, “Pull!”  and several orange flying saucers flew up.  I tried to move the trigger, but nothing happened.  The trigger was heavy and didn’t want to do anything.  The orange discs swirled and fell.  As a group, we were not very good.  That was encouraging.

I waited, and when the next round of targets went up, I pulled my finger back harder.  Because people always talk about how loud guns are in real life, and how strong the kickback can be, I was prepared for those two experiences.  It wasn’t so loud I felt like I needed earplugs, but then, I only shot six or eight times.

It was the force required to pull the trigger.  You had to really mean it.

I went back to the table where the cartridges were sitting in little cardboard boxes, and handed my gun over to my sister.  “You can do it,” I said.

Later I got to load and shoot a different gun, a 12 instead of a 20.  A 20 caliber, you see, is a “baby gun.”  The 12 gauge had a pump on it, so I had that action star moment of “cha ching” when I loaded it.  Another one of my mom’s cousins took a turn educating me.

I realized how different they are from a gun you’d use to kill a bunch of people.  The guns I shot could fire twice, and then someone would have plenty of time to tackle you.  Yes, you could kill two people.  But then, I have driven a car for many years, and I surely could kill two people with my car.  I don’t know if I could hit a possum.

I was so scared to drive a car.  As much as I lusted after that freedom, I feared the power.  When I first got in the driver’s ed car, I thought, “Who, me?  How could I drive a car?  Does he know who I am?  I can’t drive!”

My instructor didn’t know who I was, and I had to start that car and drive.

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