Avoidance

Some of the most painful things that ever happened to me happened in childhood.  One day after school, I sat in the car with my mom, facing the tree in our side yard, and crying and crying and telling her I was never going back to school.  I had no friends.  My only friend, in […]

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Penance

I’ve been to a lot of trainings to learn “what the students’ lives are like.”  These presenters are usually people who don’t spent 8 hours a day, every day, with students.   Instead, they are university-level experts in cultural differences and student psychology. Sure, when you start teaching, you should learn about the students you’re working […]

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Patience

One reason it’s good to have less money is that it forces you to be more patient.  A couple of weeks ago, my laptop took a turn for the worse.  Since I tripped over the cord, getting a good connection between the outlet and the computer is a tricky business.  Sometimes it requires repeated twisting […]

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Stuck in the Middle

Americans like to think they are all middle class.  If you are “middle class,” you can rest assured that you are a good person, not a lazy, snobby “rich” person, or a lazy, stupid “poor” person.  It reminds me of middle school. We all must be “average.” A boy should be average height. Short boys […]

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